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Ask Self Known // 002

Hello my fabulous friends! How is everyone on this wonderful day? :)
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1. Hi! I saw the first question in this post (referring to the last advice column post), and made me wonder, where do I put the code? I never know where to put the codes for things.

If you have a Blogger blog, you can add CSS codes by going to Template >>> Customize >>> Advanced >>> Add CSS. Paste your codes into the box and watch your blog be transformed! Make sure to save your changes. :)

2. How do you get the little icon or picture for blogger, as in if you look at the tab you can replace the blogger sign with an image?

I believe you are referring to what is called a favicon.

To change it you'll need a square photo less than 100KB in size (or else it won't upload).

Now, to add your new favicon, go to your blog's layout and at the top, in the left hand corner there should be a gadget that says "Favicon". Click Edit then upload your photo. After saving your changes, your favicon should appear on your site in a day or two (I don't understand why it takes so long, but it is what it is).

3. How did you design your header? I love the color changing letters!


I set up an HTML gadget...


<div id="header"><div class="s"><a href="http://www.selfknownblog.com/">S</a></div><div class="e"><a href="http://www.selfknownblog.com/">e</a></div><div class="l"><a href="http://www.selfknownblog.com/">l</a></div><div class="f"><a href="http://www.selfknownblog.com/">f</a></div> <div class="k"><a href="http://www.selfknownblog.com/">K</a></div><div class="n1"><a href="http://www.selfknownblog.com/">n</a></div><div class="o"><a href="http://www.selfknownblog.com/">o</a></div><div class="w"><a href="http://www.selfknownblog.com/">w</a></div><div class="n2"><a href="http://www.selfknownblog.com/">n</a></div></div>

Then, I added CSS...


#HTML1 { text-align: center;
border-bottom: solid 1px #ddd;
padding: 20px;
padding-left: 50px;
text-align: center !important; }

#HTML1 img { width: 80px;
height: 80px;
float: left;
padding: 10px; }

#header div {
display: inline-block;
font-size: 23px;
text-transform: uppercase;
font-family: 'Quicksand', sans-serif;
font-weight: bold;
cursor: pointer;
opacity: .5; }

#header div:hover { opacity: 1 !important; }

#header a { display: block; }

#header div a { width: 30px; }
.f a { width: 30px;
padding-right: 5px }

.o a { color: #f46444;
width: 24px; }

/* O Hover Animation */

.o a:hover { -webkit-border-radius:1003px;
-moz-border-radius:1003px;
border-radius:1003px;
color: transparent !important;
}

@keyframes example2 {
     0%  { background: #f46444;}
    25%  { background: #fffa96;}
    50%  { background: #c9faaa;}
    75%  { background: #92ebbe;}
    100% { background: #e7d1e8;}
}

/* Chrome, Safari, Opera */
@-webkit-keyframes example2 {
     0%  { background: #f46444;}
    25%  { background: #fffa96;}
    50%  { background: #c9faaa;}
    75%  { background: #92ebbe;}
    100% { background: #e7d1e8;}
}

/* Standard syntax */
@keyframes example2 {
     0%  { background: #f46444;}
    25%  { background: #fffa96;}
    50%  { background: #c9faaa;}
    75%  { background: #92ebbe;}
    100% { background: #e7d1e8;}
}

.o a:hover:after { content: "O";
color: transparent;
     height: 17px;
     width: 17px;
     border-radius: 90px;
position: absolute;
right: 310px;
top: 27px;
-webkit-animation: example2 5s infinite; /* Chrome, Safari, Opera */
    animation: example2 5s infinite; }

Sections of code that are in bold red need to be adjusted to fit your needs. :)


4. I almost feel guilty in liking a guy. Like I'm un-normal or something. I know I'm not but I am really hard on myself for admitting I like a guy. I guess that I'm afraid that it's all fake ... and I'll love him and then he'll not even care. Any idea on how to allow myself to love?


First, I'd like you to remind yourself that there is nothing un-normal about liking a guy. In fact, it's healthy. But I understand your position. I'm really hard on myself too.

My advice to you would be this: No matter what you do, how many precautions you take, or how hard you are on yourself, there is no avoiding love. Love is what keeps us going. It propels us into taking action.

To live without love is to not live at all.

The guy you like today may end up not caring. He may break your heart. That's just how things go. (This isn't what you want to hear, I know, but it's true.) But who says you have to let that into your life right now? You don't have to be ready to love anyone at this very moment. You're allowed to take your time. Don't force yourself to grow up.

If you want to allow yourself to love, I suggest starting small. Really, really small. Do the dishes for your mom. Watch a movie with your siblings. Ask your dad about his day. Love doesn't have to be romantic. It's beautiful in its purest state and form. After taking baby steps, you can move into bigger things. Plan a surprise party for your BFF. Make eye contact with your crush. Craft something small and cute for your favorite school teacher. Show your appreciation.

Open yourself up to the world.

Whatever you do, do genuinely. Slowly. Take your time, gauge your personal growth.

I'll leave you with one last thing to mull over: if you're scared, do it anyway. Because what's worse - the pain of fear or the pain of regret?



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